Saturday, October 26, 2013

Ingredients:
·         Butter
·         Cinnamon
·         Bread (fresh preferably)

Preparation:
            Set the oven to broil at 275 degrees. Lay out 6 pieces of bread on a pan. Make sure they are equally separated. Get out a butter knife, and spread the butter onto the bread (Make sure it is evenly distributed.). I would wake up to the sound of bacon sizzling and popping, like a warm camp fire, on the stove. Since my job was to turn on the oven and spread the butter, my grandmother would patiently wait for me to awaken from my dazed state. Pouring me a glass of milk, she sat across from me writing a grocery list. The smell of the breakfast food just made me even more tired. The first thing she said was we needed more cinnamon.      
           Take half a tea spoon of cinnamon, for each piece of bread, and spread it like you did with the butter. Make sure to distribute it equally, or there could be too much cinnamon or too much butter. My grandmother has never liked cinnamon, but after she would make the French toast she would eat it. I never understood that because of the things she has said about cinnamon. “The taste is too strong!” or “The texture of cinnamon is gritty, like sand!” But she would still eat it, every time, and I would laugh at her for it. She told me that day that she always tastes her masterpieces, even if she didn't like the food.

            Once the oven is heated, place the pan on the top rack. Wait till the butter is melted and the edges are golden brown before putting it on the bottom rack. Keep it on the bottom rack for at least 2 minutes. Since I would laugh at my grandmother for her silly ways, she would laugh at how impatient I was. I’ve always hated waiting for the French toast to cook and cool. It’s agonizing when it’s right in front of you, but if you eat one your mouth will burn. I didn't want the eggs, waffles, sausages, or bacon that was already done. I just wanted the French toast.

            Take the French toast out and let it cool. Once it is cool, you can enjoy it! Eating the French toast with my grandmother on that early Saturday morning, will always be my favorite memory. The smells, the love, and the warmth, will always linger and cling to me. I hope it is her favorite memory too, because it will always be mine.

Monday, October 7, 2013

Women the new breadwinners.


            Men are supposed to work while women clean the house and take care of the children. That is a “traditional” gender role in today’s society(and from the fiftey's). That role has been forced upon both genders for thousands of years. That is why these “traditional” gender roles should not exist. It limits the freedom of an individual in today’s society.  Gender roles give no one the room to explore and find themselves in this already crazy world.
            In the text, (An American role reversal: Women the new breadwinner by Daniel Cauchon), it talks about the role reversal of six different households. The first house hold is Tiffany Townsend’s, as she talks about her role reversal; she says “I even worry about how others will judge me. Women who work are sometimes perceived as sacrificing family for career.” This quote from the text proves how most people act towards women that work, all because of a role engraved in the female gender. A role that is pushed onto individuals the moment they are old enough to walk.
            For Sherrie Daseier, another story in this text, her husband, Jim, feels having “the traditional housewife role has been a life’s disappointment for him.” This is a good example of a male being raised in a ‘traditional” gender role household. He feels like he has to work, and take care if the family financially. Men shouldn’t feel like that is an obligation. Men (and women) shouldn’t be forced to do something he/she doesn’t want to do. Sadly, most men and women go along with their assigned gender role in fear of being judged by other people.

             Think back in history to the many things women and men couldn’t do. Boys didn’t take dance classes, they played sports. Girls didn’t play sports, they would take dance classes. Roles are reversing in today’s society and people don’t know how to act. They are so stuck in their great-grandfathers’ and mothers’ way that they can’t see this should have started many years ago. Times are changing and I am ready for the change. The traditional gender roles are no longer needed for today’s society, and as soon as people can realize that, the happier the future will be.